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The listeners on the IWS show have requested healing messages on a variety of topics. This week’s healing message is on relationships.

 

Oh, relationships are the foundation of joy!

 

You see, the universe itself was created from the idea of a relationship. “Oh, wouldn’t it be grand to share how I feel?” When this thought occurred, a particle was created different from the thinker. And thus was communication.

 

Communication is the essence of all relationships, and the quality of communication determines the quality of any relationship.

 

 

The etheric substance that connects all things and composes all things is thought, and thought resonates to the fundamental vibration of the universe, what you refer to as the

OM. When you reach for someone, that connection is love, did you realize that? The essence of communication, therefore, is love! Love is what creates and sustains all relationships.  Relationships are about the quality of communication. When you allow your affinity for another to become attenuated in any way, you interfere with the essence of a relationship.

 

 

All communication begins on a very high vibrational level, because the genesis of communication is within the spirit, and the essence of spirit is love. Thought generates electro–chemical responses within the body, which determine where a person is on the scale of vibration/emotion. So a relationship begins within you! The most important relationship you have is the one with yourself.

 

 

A relationship begins with vibrational attraction. Because attraction operates on the principle of ‘like attracts like,’ you become attracted to someone who resonates to the things you do. Take Ken and his wife Jenny. They have been happily married for 30 years, but have divergent tastes in many areas. In fact, Ken and Jenny usually never do anything together outside the house. Even so, there is between them a very deep vibrational attraction. There exists a clear communication line between them that each works on keeping clean and unsullied. We tell you that when communication is unblocked (clear), love emerges. This applies to any relationship you will ever have.

 

 

Here is how it works: when communication is clean and clear, understanding is present. And when understanding exists, affinity is the natural result, for understanding embraces the spiritual connection within you and between you. And the quintessential aspect of spirit is affinity!

 

 

Think of a communication as a wire connecting two people. When the wire is straight and  unbroken, electricity can flow smoothly. Surrounding that wire is a field of energy. That energy field is the love of spirit. Ken has one of his little cats on his lap right now. As he looks into the eyes of his pet, he feels a wash of love inside him, and an answering response from Sergei. Love literally fills the space between them! That is what happens in a relationship when communication is pure, and nothing is hidden.

 

 

Now imagine, dear ones, if all of your relationships with your fellow human beings could be the same as that between you and your beloved pets! We want to tell you unequivocally that the foundation, or the baseline, of all relationships between beings is love and understanding!

 

 

“Yes,” you say, “but my pet loves me even if I’m crabby! “

Well, we tell you that the human responses of anger, irritation, hostility, contempt or any other lower emotion are learned responses. You all enter the body as pure spirit, looking forward to a wonderful adventure on earth. Within you is a deep and unshakable feeling of love that never goes away, no matter how miserable your life experience is. This feeling comes forth from the essence of who you are, which is a divine, powerful and immortal non–physical personality.

 

 

 In fact, we say again that you could not experience the depths of negative emotion if love was not the primary vibration. You see, hatred comes from love, and so does depression, anxiety, irritation, sadness and fear. Why is that?

 

Because love represents total freedom, complete understanding and unconditional affinity. Love ALLOWS you to experience anything, no matter how horrible, because love knows that all things originate from it and come back to it. When Jesus the Christ said, “I am the Alpha and the Omega,” He meant that love created the universe and that a human life is temporary. Like the moisture that rises from the sea into the clouds and condenses back to the sea again as precipitation, a spirit enters the body and then releases its connection, returning always back to love. “I am the Alpha and the Omega” may seem like an arrogant and egotistical statement, but we assure you it is not!

 

The love of God is an all–powerful, all–loving feeling of bliss and happiness, an expansive feeling that encompasses the entire universe! Oh, if you could only feel what we feel right now! You would never doubt yourself again. The world would open to you and life would be pure joy! (Ken sighs)

 

 

Now, a relationship is essentially a way to explore the nuances of communication between two beings. Relationships are a dipole: when there are two stable points occupying a position in space, there is a relationship. That relationship establishes a line of communication. The quality of that communication is determined by the free will choices of the participants. But the basis for that relationship is always love. We see that human beings often explore relationships on the negative end of the emotional scale, but this is not necessary.  A great relationship is always based on clear communication, which leads to understanding and affinity. You have the choice to put anything on your lines of communication with other people.

 

 

This week, we ask you to be mindful of what you think and say to others, not because we want you to be “nice,” but because in so doing you will learn a lot about who you are. Remember that your relationships with others are a direct reflection of what is inside of you. The law of ‘like attracts like’ firmly establishes that!

 

Exercise: Choose a day and consciously become aware of your emotional state and your attitude toward every person you speak to or interact with. You don’t have to spend a lot of time at this, because if you are honest with yourself you will know very well what you are feeling. Try to feel the quality of the communication between you and the person you interact with. Try to “feel” the space between you. When you do this, you may become aware, much more clearly, what the OTHER person is feeling! When both people on a communication line are aware of what the other is feeling, something wonderful can happen: complete understanding! This is how we do it in

Native State, and you can do it too.

 

 

 

If you have an unsatisfying relationship with another, you do not have to continue in the currently activated vibration. By simply becoming aware of the communication line you have with another, you can repair the line at your end, somewhat like the service man who fixes the electrical connection between the power company and your house. When the juice begins to flow, the lights shine brightly!

 

Meditation:

Stand or sit comfortably where there are people present. This could be in a coffee shop, a mall, or outside in a park. Close your eyes. Let your spiritual sensors roam outward and imagine a communication line to everyone who passes by.  Make that connection glow. Do this until you experience a feeling of love. Now open your eyes and radiate love around you, and watch what happens. Like Sergei the cat, you will find yourself with a sweet smile on your face of joy and contentment. You may find that others may stop and want to talk. You don’t have to look anyone in the eye. Just sit there, radiate love, and see how you feel, and how others react. This is step one of the Harmony Project and we assure you that if you can allow the feeling of love (which is who you are, after all!) it will feel really, really good!